Wednesday September 2, 2020 “If You Could Only See” Tonic

Mother knows best.

This tune was always background music for me, I heard it but never really listened to it.  There are countless other songs like that but for whatever reason when it came on the radio recently I actually listened to the song and, well, it confused me.

Tonic was formed by childhood friends lead singer Emerson Hart and guitarist Jeff Russo who both collaborated on most of the songwriting.  This particular song however was a solo venture by Hart and would become a top twenty tune in 1997.

Now songs, like stories need to be told from a perspective; the jilted lover, the amorous boyfriend, the girl next door, the teenager in love, the guy on the corner in Winslow AZ, even just a narrator but there is always a perspective. So in this song who exactly needs to “see the way she loves me”?  Sorry, when isolated like that it feels a bit more graphic than intended.

According to Hart this song was inspired by a contentious phone call he had with his mother when he told her he was getting married and she was a lot more than just unsupportive with him.  He takes aim at his mother's “manipulations'' and ‘lies’ during the strident verses, then slowing it down to present his side of the story in the chorus. Knowing all that will hopefully make your next listening experience more complete, if not it’s still nice background music.

Did Hart eventually marry the love of his life...nope, they broke up shortly after this song was written.  

Stay safe and well...and mom usually is right (dad sometimes too).

The video?  Yeah I don't get it either.

If you could only see the way she loves me

Then maybe you would understand

Why I feel this way about our love

And what I must do

If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says

When she says she loves me

 Well you got your reasons

And you got your lies

And you got your manipulations

They cut me down to size

 Sayin' you love but you don't

You give your love but you won't

 If you could only see the way she loves me

Then maybe you would understand

Why I feel this way about our love

And what I must do

If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says

When she says she loves me

 Seems the road less traveled

Show's happiness unraveled

And you got to take a little dirt

To keep what you love

That's what you gotta do

 Sayin' you love but you don't

You give your love but you won't

Stretching out your arms for something that's just not there

You're sayin' you love where you stand

Give your heart when you can

 If you could only see the way she loves me

Then maybe you would understand

Why I feel this way about our love

And what I must do

If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says

When she says she loves me

 You're sayin' you love but you don't

You give your love but you won't

(But she won't)

You're sayin' you love where you stand

Give your heart when you can

 If you could only see the way she loves me

Then maybe you would understand

Why I feel this way about our love

And what I must do

If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says

When she says she loves me

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